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Childhood Sexual Abuse

A Guide to Surviving Childhood Sexual Abuse

Written By: Kelly Chan Jia Li, Clinical Psychologist (MAHPC(CP)00353)Surviving childhood sexual abuse is a journey that no child should endure, yet many individuals face this distressing reality. It is a disheartening journey that can leave lasting scars on an individual’s mental and emotional well-being. The...
Intergenerational Trauma

Intergenerational Trauma

Written By: Shaundtrya Ganasan, Licensed Counselor (KB11097)3月 5, 2024We are often careful about our health to avoid inheriting medical conditions from our ancestors.But, have you wondered whether trauma can be passed down the generational lane?The answer is yes.Trauma can be passed down too.This is known...
Child Sexual Abuse

How to Spot Perpetrators Targeting Child Victims for Sexual Abuse

Written By: Kelly Chan Jia Li, Clinical Psychologist (MAHPC(CP)00353)3月 1, 2024Child sexual abuse is a distressing experience that affects countless lives worldwide. It is essential to comprehend the tactics perpetrators use to target, as awareness is the first step toward prevention. Recognizing the warning signs...
emotionally unavailable

Emotionally Unavailable Men: The Pursuit of the Unreachable

In the intricate dance of love and relationships, some individuals find themselves irresistibly drawn to emotionally unavailable partners. Emotional unavailability is a complex trait that manifests in various ways. It could involve a partner who struggles to express their feelings, avoids commitment, or remains guarded...
Sexual Fantasies

Sexual Fantasies: Is It Normal or a Sign of a Mental Disorder?

Having sexual fantasies is an intrinsic part of the human experience and often a private aspect of human sexuality. They can range from the subtle to the explicit, from common scenarios to personalized desires. While most individuals engage in sexual fantasies without any negative consequences,...

Mind matters

Mondays are typically quiet days for Devi Venashinee Muruges, who graciously welcomed Options into her mental healthcare centre in Kota Damansara, Petaling Jaya. The founder of Soul Mechanics Therapy divides her time between this hub and her newer outpost in Ipoh, where operations are slowly...
Sexual Incompatibility

Sexual Incompatibility: Impact on Relationship Intimacy

Marriage is often equated to a ship navigating the vast ocean of life that encounters various storms and calms. Marriage is a lifelong journey filled with highs, lows, joys, and challenges. One of the critical components influencing marital satisfaction is sexual compatibility. While love, trust,...
Alcoholism

Is Alcoholism a Way to Cope with Depression?

Alcoholism and depression are two prevalent problems that affect individuals from all walks of life. Alcoholism, also known as alcohol use disorder (AUD), involves excessive and problematic drinking that can lead to severe health and mental concerns. Depression, on the other hand, is a mental...
Chinese New Year 2024

Chinese New Year 2024: How to Ease Stress and Anxiety

Chinese New Year celebration 2024 is around the corner. It is a time of tradition, festivities, delicious food, and family reunions. However, for some of you, the prospect of family gatherings during this special occasion can also bring about stress, anxiety, and unhappiness. Navigating the...
Self-Love

Self-Love: 7 Ways to Love Yourself

In the hustle and bustle life of the year 2024, where time seems to slip away unnoticed, prioritizing self-love has become more crucial than ever. Life can get very hectic, and it is easy to forget to prioritize our well-being. Despite the tight and busy...
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